I Don’t Wear Makeup When I Go on a Date.

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Yeah, I really don’t put on any makeup when I go on a first date. Why? Because I want to be myself—I don’t want to wear a “mask” or pretend to be someone I’m not on a first date. I want to be honest so the person sees what I actually look like. That’s what makes me feel comfortable.

Makeup is basically a form of female deception—one that society fully accepts as normal. But still, I don’t want to start a relationship with any kind of illusion or disguise.

Now, on later dates? That’s when I might bring out the full magic of modern makeup and hit them with that “wow” effect.

I used to always wear makeup no matter where I went. I wasn’t confident in myself, worried about what other people thought, and wanted to look better, fit the trends. Honestly, that kind of social pressure made me feel uncomfortable a lot of the time.

But then, one day, it just clicked—I am who I am!

Why should I pretend to be someone else? Why should I let society tell me what’s “better,” what’s “beautiful” or “cool”?

I accepted myself completely.

Once I realized that, I started going out without makeup. And pretty quickly, I got used to it—I stopped feeling insecure or afraid of being seen without it. Then, I took it a step further and even started going on first dates without makeup. And trust me, when you show up with makeup on the second or third date, it really has that “wow” effect. Your date doesn’t see it coming, and your new look becomes a pleasant surprise.

Try being yourself—it’s real freedom.

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