About me

Hello everyone,
My name is Vlada. I'm from Ukraine.

In this difficult time for my country, I am trying to somehow control myself, my feelings, my anxiety, and stress less. I found that learning English and blogging helps me to be distracted from what is happening. So you could notice that my English is not that good and I want to improve it. This blog is my attempt to combine blogging, practicing the English language, and calming down my anxiety.

Sometimes, I feel like I want to share my thoughts, my experience, and my opinion on things that happen in our lives, or to share my opinion about things that I found interesting, or things that I'm currently exploring, and maybe someone would find it useful.

I am not a professional blogger and my blog may seem a bit chaotic. But I'm working on it.

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